Size: Do you want smaller than average, average or fantasy-sized? Are you just beginning to experiment with toys? Then you'll probably want to start with a smaller vibrator. Do you want something of an average size that won't be as intimidating to bring into your intimate relationship? You should look at the dimensions of the vibrator. If they're not listed in the description, contact me and ask; don't just go by a picture. If a toy is uncomfortable or too small to satisfy, then you'll be frustrated and unhappy. Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? Again, be sure to look at the dimensions so that you're not disappointed. or give me a call.