Size: Do you want smaller than average, average or something extra-long?Are you just beginning to experiment with anal toys? Then you'll probably want to start with a small, smooth dildo or graduated anal beads that allow you to start with the smallest bead and work your way up. Have you had some experience with anal toys and want something a little larger, or maybe with some texture? Look into harness toys or anal plugs, as they often come in a variety of sizes. Some anal plugs also expand to any size you choose. Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? There are many anal vibrators and beads that are longer than average. Again, be sure that these have some sort of safety base or handle and that you check the length. What may be average for some people may not be the same for you!Make Sure You Have All Your AccessoriesOnce you've found the toy of your dreams, ensure you have all the following: Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. Since the anus does not produce any natural lubrication, it is important you use lubricant for anal toys. You may also want to look for something with a desensitizing agent. Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean.