Lubrication - Smart Product Ed

DEFINITION OF A LUBRICANT

Also referred to as "lube." A water- or silicone-based mixture used to make masturbation or intercourse more pleasurable by enhancing or providing a slippery feel. Ingredients (which can include flavoring and herbs) and prices vary, but water-based lubes are the most widely used as they are appropriate for most sex toys (they won't cause damage to pricey silicone and realistic) and are generally safe for use with condoms. Silicine-based lubes are generally for use in water, but are also popular with couples because they don't usually become absorbed, thereby reducing or eliminating the need for reapplication. Lubricant also comes in many forms: liquid, gel and thicker creams. Thicker lubes are often used for anal play and sometimes include a desensitizer.

HOW TO SELECT A LUBRICANT

Results: What do you want this lube to do? Are you looking for a lubricant that feels as natural as possible? Then a water-based lube may be more to your liking. Affordable and available in a wide selection, you can experiment with different lubes without spending too much money. Do you want something with more staying power? A silicone-based lube is ideal because it doesn't absorb into the skin. It's also perfect for use in the water or with waterproof toys! Will you be using this lube for anal play? You'll probably want a thicker lubricant, possibly with a desensitizer in the formula.

Luscious Lubrication (Need An Extra Kick?)

"Extras": Any other characteristics you want in this lubricant? Are you looking for a lube to make oral play even more pleasant? Try a flavored lubricant. Do you want to add an extra kick to your sexual encounters? Try a lube that warms or that includes different ingredients such as ginseng, yohimbe or even hemp. Some people feel heightened sensations thanks to these all-natural additives! Will you be using the lube with condoms? Then please, please be sure to read the description to ensure the lube is condom-safe.

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Things to Keep in Mind

You're about to choose the lube of your dreams, so we just have a few more items for you to consider:

• If cleanup is an issue for you, stick with water-based lubes as they simply need a rinse with water and they're gone; most are non-staining as well.
• If you need to go the long haul, then silicone lubes will serve your needs the best.
• Concerned about reactions or irritation? If you experience discomfort after applying a lubricant, wash it off immediately and see your doctor if a rash appears or does not fade in a day or so.

As you're dealing with a very sensitive and delicate area, you may have to try a few before you find one you like and that likes you!

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The "Pearl" of Bliss (Clitoral Stimulators)

DEFINITION OF A CLITORAL STIMULATOR
A device designed specifically to excite the clitoris. Can be found in a number of forms, such as a strap-on stimulator (generally shaped like a butterfly or cute object, where the body nestles in the labia and the antennae vibrate against the clitoris), a pocket rocket (any small, hand-held vibrator that is non-phallic, non-insertable and has massaging nodules on the head) or vibrating bullet (a slim plastic or metal vibrator that is missile-shaped and attached by a cord to a battery pack). Also refers to any protrusion on a vibrator or erection ring that is located near the base where it can vibrate or rub against the clitoris.

HOW TO SELECT A CLITORAL STIMULATOR
Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or her)? Are you looking for something that leaves your hands free? Then a strap-on stimulator is great. You may also be interested in panties or G-Strings with vibrating bullets. If you're playing with a partner, look at remote-controlled offerings. Do you want to control every iota of your stimulation? Then a hand-held vibrator will be your best friend. From vibrating bullets to pocket rockets to mini-vibes, there's an array of sizes, shapes and intensities, so you can find your perfect toy. Something for use with a partner? You want a vibrating erection ring with a bullet to position in just the right spot. Also look at micro-bullets for use in conjunction with oral play, as well as fingertip massagers to rev-up manual stimulation. Do you prefer vaginal as well as clitoral stimulation? What you need is a dual-action or a strap-on with a vaginal insert for the best of both worlds.

The "Pearl" of Bliss (Clitoral Stimulator Material)

What do you want this toy to feel like?
Do you want something softer, with more diffuse vibration? Then you want a stimulator made of jelly, rubber or silicone. Most strap-ons are made of one of these materials. Have you been looking for a clitoral toy that you can use in the water? Then a waterproof toy is best. Some wireless bullets and finger massagers have rubber-sealed battery compartments, making them appropriate for water use. Do you prefer something that transmits a stronger vibration? Generally something made of plastic or metal will have the strongest vibration, but can also numb. To avoid this, look for toys with a pulsatronic controller. Many rigid vibes come with soft sleeves, which may diffuse vibration slightly, but be more comfortable.

The "Pearl" of Bliss (Size) - Clitoral Stimulators

Size: Do you want something more discreet or is performance the most important issue? Are you looking for something that's easy to travel with? Then a discreet vibe is your best bet. Not only are these small and cordless, but most look fairly innocent, so accidental exposure won't make for embarrassing moments. Do you want something tiny that packs a big punch? Look into vibrating bullets and micro-bullets. Not only do these transmit vibrations extremely well, but many have pulsatronic controllers to stave off numbness. Is comfort most important to you? Definitely think about wearable stimulators; all come in a variety of sizes and levels of discreetness.
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Good Vibrations

DEFINITION OF VIBRATOR

Vibrator - The name for any variety of battery- or electrically-powered devices used for sexual gratification. The traditional vibrator is a long, slim, smooth cylinder, usually made of plastic, powered by batteries in the base of the vibe. There are also dual-action vibrators, which consist of a shaft, generally phallic-shaped, that may rotate in different directions, vibrate, have gyrating beads or "pearls," be texturized or all of the above; they also have a clitoral stimulator attached at the base of the shaft which may be any variety of animal (rabbits, butterflies and dolphins being popular), insect or even another body part. Most have separate controls for each action, though these may be found on either the base of the vibe or be attached by a cord or wire to a handpack where the batteries are inserted. There are strap-on vibrators that are worn via a panty or elastic leg and waist straps; these can be remote-controlled or wireless as well as controlled by a handpack. There are also vibrating bullets, G-Spot vibrators and anal vibrators (see definitions for Clitoral Stimulator, G-Spot Toy and Anal Toy). All varieties of vibrator are made from a wide spectrum of materials, in all price ranges, colors and sizes.

HOW TO SELECT A VIBRATOR

We know how overwhelming selecting a vibrator can be. Fortunately, if you answer three simple questions, it's easy!Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or your partner)? Is this your first foray into buying a vibrator? Then consider starting out with a small and gentle vibrator. Are you looking for something to provide internal stimulation? Then a traditional vibrator is your best bet, but you should also consider a dual-action or G-Spot vibe. Looking for external clitoral as well as internal stimulation? A dual-action vibrator is ideal. Do you have difficulty achieving orgasm or need something more powerful? If so, you'll want to look into an electronic vibrator or a pulsatronic vibrator. Materials: What do you want this toy to feel like? Do you want something that feels as much like skin as possible? Then you definitely want something made of silicone, CyberskinTM, or Soft Touch materials; these materials are pricier than plastic, jelly or rubber, but feel uncannily realistic. Are you looking for something that feels realistic, but is more affordable? Would you prefer a toy that you can use in the water? Then any vibe that is waterproof is the best for you; check by looking for a rubber O-ring at the opening to the battery compartment. Do you prefer something rigid that transmits the strongest vibration possible? A traditional slimline vibe, generally made of hard plastic and without bells or whistles, is what you're looking for.

Vibrator - Size It Up

Size: Do you want smaller than average, average or fantasy-sized?

Are you just beginning to experiment with toys? Then you'll probably want to start with a smaller vibrator. Do you want something of an average size that won't be as intimidating to bring into your intimate relationship? You should look at the dimensions of the vibrator. If they're not listed in the description, contact me and ask; don't just go by a picture. If a toy is uncomfortable or too small to satisfy, then you'll be frustrated and unhappy. Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? Again, be sure to look at the dimensions so that you're not disappointed. or give me a call.

Couples Sensual Exploration

DEFINITION OF A COUPLE'S TOY GUIDE

A sex toy made for two people to use at the same time. Many times this phrase simply refers to any toy that may be used on both partners, not necessarily simultaneously.

HOW TO SELECT A COUPLE'S TOY

We know how overwhelming selecting a toy for both of you can be. Fortunately, if you answer three simple questions, it's easy! Would you like to improve communication with your mate while having an erotic good time? Are you looking for something that is more subtle than a how-to book? Our couple's games range from simple scratch card formats to sensual card games to more complex board games that challenge both of you to be more open and loving with each other. Would you rather have something more descriptive that may be referred to in the future? Look into instructional videos and manuals that you can keep handy. Videos generally focus on the sexual side of things, but may also help couples to express themselves more verbally. Simply want to expand your repertoire of positions and/or sexual vocabulary? Erotica can open up communication, read out loud or used to act out fantasies. Plus, many educational books are arousing to read, so you'll also have step-by-step instructions on how to play out your erotic reading!

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Couples Exploration - Something Sensual

Are you looking for something soft and romantic to woo your partner?

Do you simply want a sensual way to spend more time with your mate? Try a warm bath with bubbles and maybe a vibrating sponge to cleanse and massage daily stress away. Would you like to connect physically with your sweetie in a way other than intercourse? A sensual massage is a wonderful way to do this. Use scented lotions or warming oils and maybe up the ante by using something edible as well. Or get a collection and try something different every night! Are you seeking a fun way to initiate your sexual encounters? You should definitely look into body balms, dusts and paints. Use them as innocently or indecently as you both want, just be sure you have old blankets or sheets you don't mind getting dirty!

Couples Exploration - Get Daring

Do you want something to liven up your sex life?

Are you looking for something to use during intercourse? The best thing would be a vibrating erection ring, but a harness is also an option for couples who want to role-play. Do you want something to liven up foreplay? Then a fingertip massager or a micro-bullet would be perfect, as both are small enough to use with hands or tongues. Something for use in public? Then you definitely want something that's remote-controlled. Remote-controlled or an insertable remote egg will make a night out extremely memorable. Just be sure there's plenty of background noise! Have you both wanted to explore alternative kicks? Try any sort of light bondage gear such as blindfolds, fabric cuffs and ropes.

G-Spot (Her Sacred Spot)

DEFINITION OF A G-SPOT TOY

A bedroom toy designed specifically for stimulation of a woman's G-Spot(may also be used for male prostate stimulation). Generally a smooth, slender vibrator or dildo with a curved tip and rounded head; may be made of any number of materials, but usually firm jelly or plastic. Designed for use with the curve pointing toward the front (belly button) of the woman's body, most are the traditional hand-held cylindrical shape, but may also be in the form of a strp-on vibrator.

HOW TO SELECT A G-SPOT TOY

You're ready for G-Spot exploration, but where to begin? Answer these straightforward questions and you'll be well on your way to finding the G-Spot toy just for you! Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or your partner)?Have you located your g-spot? If you are just beginning your exploration or are exploring with your lover, a smaller, simple and smooth G-spot toy is best. Are you looking for different ways to stimulate your G-Spot as well as other types of stimulation? Then look for different shapes and widths along with toys that also provide clitoral or anal stimulation.Do you want something you control with your hand, or do you want your hands free for body exploration? Most G-Spot toys are hand-held, giving you the control to find the exact angle and pressure. However, strap-on toys leave both hands free to caress yourself.

G-Spot - Size Selection

Size: Are you looking to travel with this toy or is bigger better for you?
Are you an on-the-go person, or do you simply want something petite? Look for a G-Spot vibe in the three-to-five inch range. Look at the dimensions or call me. Realize also that a shorter vibe will be trickier to hold onto and control. Is reach an issue for you? You should explore longer, more slendr vibes that will give you more control and be more comfortable to grip. Do you want it all - G-spot stimulation and a full, satisfying feeling? Again, look at the dimensions of the vibe you think you're interested in and pick the girth that appeals to you. Be sure to look at the length, too. There are wider vibes that are also short!

Sex In The Back Door (Anal Pleasure)

DEFINITION OF AN ANAL TOY

A sex toy created specifically for anal use; may take the form of a vibrator, dildo, butt plug or beads. anal vibrators, plugs and dildos have flared or extra-long bases to ensure they do not travel too far into the rectum and may be made of any material. Often these types of anal toys will feature a curved tip for prostate stimulation in men. Anal beads and balls are groupings of sphere-shaped beads strung together (some may be attached to a battery pack for vibration) and can be used during climax by pulling out bead by bead to enhance orgasm. These should be made of one continual, sturdy strand of material with an easy-to-grip handle on one end. These, too, may be made of any material, with jelly and latex being the most popular.

HOW TO SELECT AN ANAL TOY

We know selecting an anal toy can be a daunting experience. Fortunately, if you answer three simple questions, it's easy!Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or your partner)? Are you a first-time anal explorer? Then you definitely want something small, smooth and probably non-vibrating. Also, be sure it has a flanged safety base or a long enough handle to ensure a no-slip grip. Have you used anal toys before and now want a different sensation? Try anal beads, vibrating plug, or even a dual-action or triple action vibrator. Want a toy for use with a partner? Try something harness-compatible. Do you want to explore prostate stimulation? Look for a toy with a pronounced curve at the end or somthing that rotates. Many G-Spot toys may be used for this purpose, but make sure they're long enough to hang onto and that they have a safety base before you use them anally!

Sex In the Back Door (Material Choices)

Materials: What do you want this toy to feel like?Do you want something that's more pliable? Then you definitely want something made of silicone, jelly or a realistic material. Are you more interested in different shapes and specific spot stimulation? An acrylic or glass dildo may be good for you. Available in a variety of size and shapes, these toys can also be heated or chilled for very different sensations. Is something that most resembles a penis what you really crave? Look for traditional or lifelike toys. Many are actually molded from the real thing!

Sex In The Back Door (Size Matters)

Size: Do you want smaller than average, average or something extra-long?Are you just beginning to experiment with anal toys?

Then you'll probably want to start with a small, smooth dildo or graduated anal beads that allow you to start with the smallest bead and work your way up. Have you had some experience with anal toys and want something a little larger, or maybe with some texture? Look into harness toys or anal plugs, as they often come in a variety of sizes. Some anal plugs also expand to any size you choose. Is a feeling of fullness most gratifying to you? There are many anal vibrators and beads that are longer than average. Again, be sure that these have some sort of safety base or handle and that you check the length. What may be average for some people may not be the same for you!Make Sure You Have All Your AccessoriesOnce you've found the toy of your dreams, ensure you have all the following: Plenty of fresh batteries in the proper size lubricant, lubricant, lubricant. Since the anus does not produce any natural lubrication, it is important you use lubricant for anal toys. You may also want to look for something with a desensitizing agent. Information on how to care for your toy and keep it clean.

Male Pleasure & Joy

DEFINITION OF A MALE TOY

A bedroom toy used by men for masturbation or during partner sex. May be in the form of a masturbation sleeve (a hollow, cylindrical device into which the penis is inserted and stimulated by texturizing inside the sleeve and/or vibration; can be made of any material, but is usually silicone, jelly or a realistic material such as Cyberskin TM), a vacuum pump (generally presented as enlargers, but only very temporarily do any enlarging; most basic models are a clear plastic cylinder with a rubber-lined opening in which to insert the penis and have a hand-held rubber pump that creates the vacuum, others have textured sleeves inside, vibration or suction), a tickler (a thin latex or silicone sleeve that has ridges or nodules or other protrusions made to be rolled on the penis like a condom and supposedly for the partner's pleasure) or an erection ring (a silicone, jelly or rubber ring that goes on the penis; some vibrate or have a clitoral stimulator that vibrates for partner sex). May also apply to any vibrator when used to stimulate the penis or testicles.

HOW TO CHOOSE A MALE TOY

We know selecting a male toy can be a daunting experience. Fortunately, if you answer three simple questions, it's easy!Results: What do you want this toy to do to you (or him)? Are you looking for something to provide texture and sensation when masturbating? Then a sleeve is ideal, although a pump might also work. Something to temporarily enlarge the penis or increase erection stamina? Pumps or erection rings are ideal. Something for him to use with his partner? A vibrating erection ring is the answer. Does he have erectile dysfunction? If so, you'll want to consider an extender, erection ring or harness. Is he into anal play? Try an anal plug, dildo or vibrator. For the best results, select an anal toy that's curved to stimulate his prostate. Materials: What do you want this toy to feel like? The popular materials for male products are silicone and other realistic materials, like CyberskinTM, Futurotic and Soft Touch. Consider whether he'd like something that simulates the real thing, something with a smoother, advanced feel or something with a unique texture. Select a more pliable material, like jelly or silicone, if you are new to toys. The added flexibility and softness of these materials will be more comfortable for you as you experiment with what you enjoy. There's no perfect answer for what every man will like when it comes to sex toy material, since every body is different. You may want to try several materials and see what works best. Size: Big? Small? Tight? Loose? They all feel good.Masturbations sleeves are particularly tricky to size, so we've provided an entirely separate article explaining how to select the correctly sized masturbation sleeve. For erection rings, you'll want to be aware not only of the size of the ring, but also factors like material and how you put it on. Finally, for anything used for penetration of any kind, including anal toys, extenders and harnesses, start with a smaller size if you're new to these types of toys. Don't fall into the trap of thinking bigger is better all the time! Work your way up as you get more comfortable.